Welcome Lyvv! Glad that you stumbled onto our groovy forum!
As to how things work, just find a conversation thats interesting to you, and give your input. We've got everything from book discussion, movie discussion, games, random character topics, crafts, even topics about other fandoms out there. We also do a Family Tree, where you can be 'adopted' by others members and join in on the Tree forum and parties. (that explains the 'marriage' status in some of our signatures
) Feel free to look around and pop into threads to say hi. And like legolin, you can PM me as well if you need any help.