Hi, some ppl mite have read my other topic, about me cutting myself?? well i stopped for a few month and now, well im at it again and my friend 2!!! help me, i dont want to have to wear bracelets 24\7!!!!!
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| Author: | meleth_legolas [ January 20th, 2007, 12:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help!! ive gone into BAD habits again! |
Hi, some ppl mite have read my other topic, about me cutting myself?? well i stopped for a few month and now, well im at it again and my friend 2!!! help me, i dont want to have to wear bracelets 24\7!!!!!
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| Author: | Guest [ January 21st, 2007, 4:17 pm ] |
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hm..gee that sounds tough. maybe when u feel the need to..er..cut yourself..just throw the knife..or...like..hide the knives... 
im not much of a good-advice giver. |
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| Author: | ElenyaAr-Feiniel [ January 22nd, 2007, 3:04 am ] |
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I know what you mean. I was in the same situation. god helped me to get out of that but I am not sure if it's allowed to write anything about it. I really realized that it was wrong when I drove in a car with my best friends and their mother. Suddenly the mother said, totally shocked: She cuts herself. and it was so embarassing and I knew that I don't want anyone to see it. now I have scars and there's nothing I can do against it. Just stop it, try it at least and get help from afriend who doesnt do the same... |
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| Author: | The Nightingale [ January 22nd, 2007, 4:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help!! ive gone into BAD habits again! |
meleth_legolas wrote: Hi, some ppl mite have read my other topic, about me cutting myself?? well i stopped for a few month and now, well im at it again and my friend 2!!! help me, i dont want to have to wear bracelets 24\7!!!!!
I'll come by your house and talk to you later, k? But until then, just know I'm here for you, if you ever want to talk about anything, and I can try and help you work your way through your problems. If I can't, Cait should be able to help you, okay? I'm praying for you, and I'm here to support you. You are loved. The Nightingale/Lalaithnindil/Kyleigh |
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| Author: | ethelfleda [ January 22nd, 2007, 9:32 am ] |
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i'm really not sure what to say, but i want you to know that i know exactly what it feels like to be in that place, but i've come through it (just like with elenya, it was god that gave me the strength) and that means that you can come through it too. whenever i got the urge to hurt myself, i used to just curl up as small as i could and make myself stay perfectly still and quiet until the feeling passed. the more i did that, the less i wanted to hurt myself, so that now i don't at all. i don't know how much this will mean to you, but you're in my thoughts and prayers. i may not know you, but i really believe with all my heart that you can beat this - experience has taught me that those personal demons can always be beaten. |
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| Author: | BlackRose_Valentine [ January 23rd, 2007, 12:29 pm ] |
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I know thisa sounds harsh but You are probably cutting yourself as a way of forming attention, and thats y ure telling us about it. I read a book on this and, its true Sorry. |
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| Author: | The Nightingale [ January 23rd, 2007, 1:56 pm ] |
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meleth_legolas is my neighbor and friend. She doesn't draw attention to herself, especially not like this. |
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| Author: | BlackRose_Valentine [ January 23rd, 2007, 5:03 pm ] |
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its sub conscious actually. I told u i may sound arsh, but sorry its a POSSIBILITY. She obvo wants help,or she wouldn't tell us, i was helping. end of. |
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| Author: | Guest [ January 23rd, 2007, 6:16 pm ] |
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BlackRose...your being too harsh on her. if Nightingale really knows her and TN is saying the truth that she is not drawing attetion, I believe TN then..cuz..TN seems honest. |
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| Author: | Inwe Calaelen [ January 23rd, 2007, 8:26 pm ] |
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ElenyaAr-Feiniel wrote: I know what you mean. I was in the same situation. god helped me to get out of that but I am not sure if it's allowed to write anything about it.
I really realized that it was wrong when I drove in a car with my best friends and their mother. Suddenly the mother said, totally shocked: She cuts herself. and it was so embarassing and I knew that I don't want anyone to see it. now I have scars and there's nothing I can do against it. Just stop it, try it at least and get help from afriend who doesnt do the same... *Hoogleers Evil twin* I'm glad God helped you ^^ And as for advice. I'd pray about it and get help from family/friends if you really wanna quit. Thats all I can say. PM me if you want more advice. Good luck! |
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| Author: | tim4x [ January 23rd, 2007, 8:54 pm ] |
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meleth_legolas, I really only have one suggestion: professional help. In the old thread you said that you were able to stop temporarily, but you obviously can't stop permanently. If you really want to stop permanently(Or a least have some sort of chance) you need to get counseling, because are posts telling you to "go hug a puppy" when you feel the urge are (unsurprisingly) useless. Sorry to be so blunt, but you obviously need real help. 
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| Author: | Amoniel [ January 23rd, 2007, 9:13 pm ] |
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timtimtimtim wrote: meleth_legolas, I really only have one suggestion: professional help. In the old thread you said that you were able to stop temporarily, but you obviously can't stop permanently. If you really want to stop permanently(Or a least have some sort of chance) you need to get counseling, because are posts telling you to "go hug a puppy" when you feel the urge are (unsurprisingly) useless.
Sorry to be so blunt, but you obviously need real help. yeah, you probably do need professional help. you can talk to your parents and they will most likely help you to get a counsler. I have a question: why is cutting addicting? I never really quite got that. How is hurting yourself something that you can't stop? Just wondering. but yeah, not to sound harsh, but you probably need professional help if you can't stop cutting.
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| Author: | Guest [ January 23rd, 2007, 11:11 pm ] |
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I agree with timx4 and Amoniel. and yes...how is hurting yourself additcing?
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| Author: | Dark, Queen of Angmar [ January 23rd, 2007, 11:14 pm ] |
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i had a freidn that use to cut herself, and she got through it fine, without god, so dont think thats the only way you can turn. Dont be afraid to tel parents, counsellors or trusted teachers, just dont, it's not a good way to live your life. Try wearing elastics, and wehn you get the urge to cut yourself, snap them, usually it helps, or write, or draw, or anything else. |
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| Author: | ElenyaAr-Feiniel [ January 24th, 2007, 1:44 am ] |
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Dark, Queen of Angmar wrote: i had a freidn that use to cut herself, and she got through it fine, without god, so dont think thats the only way you can turn.
I don't think that is what we wanted to say. At least not what I wanted. It's not the only way, it's just the way some of us got away from it. |
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| Author: | meleth_legolas [ February 3rd, 2007, 10:47 am ] |
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Its Getting better but still. Thank you all for taking time writing these messages..means a lot 2 me. |
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