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Post subject:  Posted: November 2nd, 2006, 10:06 pm |
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Agreed. It's stupid just to date someone so you have someone, it's like having a status symbol or something. Blech!
I think that relationships depend on how mature a person is. If they are ready for the resposibility or not. I haven't had a real relationship, and I'm a senior in High School. I just haven't found the right "someone."
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Post subject: Posted: November 2nd, 2006, 10:10 pm |
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Yes, all over my school, I see people together like they really sincerely love each other. Sometimes, I wonder if they really know what love really means.
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Post subject: Posted: November 2nd, 2006, 10:13 pm |
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Exactly! Right now my friend is in a relationship, it's her first, and she thinks that they are going to grew old together. And what's worse is that she's pushing her friends, like me, away because she's changed so much.
And she's such a smart girl too. It really hurts me to see her like this.
Relationships that start in High School rarely ever last that long, especially your first. I don't know what's going to with her.
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Post subject: Posted: November 2nd, 2006, 10:35 pm |
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^Yeah, true.
I see that happening a lot!! Once a friend (with experience its happened to me) once a friend of mine started going with thisguy, she complteley changed!
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Post subject: Posted: November 3rd, 2006, 12:48 pm |
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But I along with many others believe that dating really shouldnt happen until you are at least 18, course that doesnt happen. People ask me constantly why I havent dated yet. But I just tell them that no girl has what I am looking for, aka a personality.
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Post subject: Posted: November 3rd, 2006, 3:10 pm |
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i haven't started dateing yet, mainly becuse like Telepath all guy's are the same, they just follow the trends, even if thier 'indeviguals' and therefore follow the goth or emo or 'f**k you i'm a loner* thing. I haven't met anyone who i like. I'v met a few girls, but i never got the courage to put my feelings over our freindship.....WHY HASN'T ANYONE REPLIED TO MY CANDY POST???
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Post subject: Posted: November 4th, 2006, 6:46 pm |
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I know what you are saying there Larael. I would say that people are getting the idea better at about our age (16-17) the relationships are lasting longer for a start.
I personally have never dated, as I have never met someone I feel strongly enough about. I've never wanted a girl friend because I haven't met the right person. (That said, for the first time in my life, I do actually have real feelings for someone. Pity I don't have the courage to tell them  )
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Post subject: Posted: November 5th, 2006, 12:03 am |
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I was wondering about this. When you feel something to someone, do you know that is love or lust? Mainly for me, all I feel is infatuation. Nothing like love. *sighs* Such a pity....I think I transferred all of my love into my work. How about you guys and girls?
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Post subject: Posted: November 5th, 2006, 9:48 pm |
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@ Darrell: It's true. The fact that relationships at our age are lasting longer is a sign that we really do know what we want and what love means to us.
@ Caunion: Hmm... I can usually tell when I just like someone for what's on the outside [lust] rather than whats on the inside. I'll usually make comments that center on the physical aspect of that person. Unfortunately, I haven't had the chance to experience what real love feels like yet so I can't exactly comment on that fully. Hopefully I'll meet Mr. Right soon.. *sigh*
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Post subject: Posted: November 11th, 2006, 8:11 am |
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At my age (nearly) 15, I have pretty good idea what love is, because its all around me? Ideas?
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Post subject: Posted: November 11th, 2006, 1:23 pm |
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I haven't wanted a relationship for a long time. I've kissed before, I've been in love, I'd have done everything to make someone mine but now ... I don't really think I'm mature enough for a serious thing even though people have told me I act too grown up. I couldn't do it.
When I feel something for someone, I never have guts to tell my true feelings. It takes my closest friends some months to really see it. (I do tell it online sometimes, though)
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Post subject: Posted: November 11th, 2006, 2:14 pm |
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I don't think I'll ever date in high school. My friend just came out of one and she's so broken up. And the thing is, the guy seemed really, really nice. I mean, he is, he just isn't...
mature enough, I guess. He just didn't go about ending their relationship in a responsible, honest way.
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Post subject: Posted: November 11th, 2006, 5:28 pm |
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I probably will - once I get a life... 
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Post subject: Posted: November 11th, 2006, 9:57 pm |
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Dating.....hmmmm...... 
Well, I for one am not going to date. I see too many people falling in love, giving their hearts away, having a relationship for like 2 months, getting hurt by the other party, breaking up, and getting hurt.....badly. Sorry, but I just don't want to go through that. 
For all you daters out there, I would strongly suggest you get the book "I Kissed Dating Goodbye". It's an awesome book and most of the reasons I don't date are compiled in that book.
This is not all to say that I don't believe in getting married and loving someone with your whole heart for the rest of your life. I do. I just don't think it's right to get paired up at sugh young ages. Enjoy your single years!! Think about it, this is the BEST time of your lives!  You get to do things that married people don't get to do, and you are free to be single and love it. Singleness isn't all that bad! 
Believe me girls,(and guys!) giving your heart away too early, can have some dire consequences in the future.  _________________  Secret Evil Twin of Aranel Faelwen .World Domination since 2008.
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Post subject: Posted: November 11th, 2006, 11:31 pm |
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Well, I'm not completely against dating. In the future, I definitely will date. Just not the way most people do. I'm going to make sure it's a guy who won't use me, a guy who I would consider marrying.
How else can one cross the bridge from singleness to marriage? I've got to know the man I'm going to marry through and through!
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