Is it possible to have an unofficial spouse. Like, I still have Faramir as my spouse, but with the unofficial one, I still have the option to attend RP parties with them instead of Faramir?

Kinda like how Bellatrix has an honorary spouse, in her signature.

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♥ Married to Thranduil, 22 April 2014 ♥

♦ Lónannûniel, Queen of the Woodland Realm ♦

Keep in mind though that my honorary spouse has nothing to do with the official tree, I just have it because I love that character.
(I had something a little more adult but changed it in consideration for the younger members. )

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Rest in peace Carrie Fisher, the legend we didn't deserve.

I don't mind that. I won't use the unofficial spouse, for a branch on the tree. Just more choice with who to go to RP parties with.
(I think I know what you mean.)

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♥ Married to Thranduil, 22 April 2014 ♥

♦ Lónannûniel, Queen of the Woodland Realm ♦

I didn't ask, simply because I don't think there are any rules against writing something like that in your signature. I mean, it's *my* signature. I could write that Justin Bieber lives in my basement and that Barack Obama and I play tennis every Wednesday if I wanted, I'm sure. I guess the polite way though would be to not choose someone who is actually in the tree. But other than that who is going to mind, really?

I'm not going to use him for anything, I'm just in the middle of a Jurassic Park period and I love him cos he's funny and hawt, so there it is. xD

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Who I have in mind, probably won't be claimed by anyone else. It's Jareth, the goblin king, from the old movie Labyrinth. The guy in my banner. It's my all time fave movie, and I adore Jareth as a character. He's my second fave character.

I wanted to officially mention it here, so no one was confused when I mentioned him in parties.

Plus... lol on the sig example. I litterally laughed outloud.

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♥ Married to Thranduil, 22 April 2014 ♥

♦ Lónannûniel, Queen of the Woodland Realm ♦

I'm not a mod so I can't give you permission, but my signature is soooo not changing cos Ian is soooo my honorary spouse no matter what anyone wants to say.

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Well, I am happy to be back on here with my husband, Sir Percy. He's quite the picture of romance.

^ Welcome back on the Tree! Hope you can join us for our next party, whenever it may be

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Erin, I don't see why that's a problem. I actually like that idea, it would be fun to be able to sometimes invite someone else as your +1 for one of the family parties! I'll certainly discuss it with Lithôniel, see what she thinks about it

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Ok, thanks Lhunardaien. I thought it would be fun, because sometimes it can be very boring, to focus on the same character all the time.

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♥ Married to Thranduil, 22 April 2014 ♥

♦ Lónannûniel, Queen of the Woodland Realm ♦

Well I have no problem with the +1 idea, I can understand wanting to shake things up occasionally just to have something a little different in the RPs. (Granted I probably shouldn't partake in the +1 thing, I doubt my Hook will like that )

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Erin, you can just call me Lhun for short, everyone does that And again thanks for your great idea! I'm sure more people would like to attent parties sometimes with someone else than their 'official' spouses.
And Bellatrix, I also like your suggestion: it would be best to pick someone who is not officially part of the tree yet, to prevent family feuds

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Yeah, I just figured it was the politest thing to do. And I mean, my second "husband" isn't going to be used for anything because I haven't even participated in any family RP'ing. So it's literally just text in my signature. I figured no one could tell me that wasn't allowed.

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Rest in peace Carrie Fisher, the legend we didn't deserve.

I think there should be a limit on +1s though, 'cause of everyone claims like 20 people, then there won't be much choice for other people to pick, or there will, but they won't be allowed to pick who they want.


For mine, I'm picking only two.
- Jareth (Goblin King from 1986 Labyrinth movie.)
- Riku (From the Kingdom Hearts games, specifically KH2)

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♥ Married to Thranduil, 22 April 2014 ♥

♦ Lónannûniel, Queen of the Woodland Realm ♦

^ But at the end of the day, if they're not officially part of the tree, then anyone should be able to claim them. Like, Ian Malcolm for me isn't even a +1 to any parties, he's just there. Like, that text is just there cos I love that character. If someone came along and wanted to marry him - they'd surely be allowed to. So if I wanted to have twenty sentences in my sig saying "x is my honorary husband" but none of them are part of the tree, then who's going to stop me? It's my signature, I can put whatever I want there as long as it breaks no rules. If someone claims someone I have in my sig and marries them on the tree then they do. It doesn't really change anything, to be honest.

Bringing them to a rp party might be different, but even then, if they're not officially part of the tree...

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Rest in peace Carrie Fisher, the legend we didn't deserve.

Has Tonks (as in Nymphadora Tonks from Harry Potter) been claimed by anybody? Otherwise I would like to claim her as my wife.

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Married Nymphadora Tonks 29/6/13