I don't want to ignore him though. I want to tell him all of what I've told you all, but I just can't! As soon as things cool off, though, say, football season, perhaps, he's gonna hear it. At least once. Only once, really.

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at one point, I was alejandrah.

I'm beginning to get really confused now...

Are you upset about this, or are you feeling okay about it?

If you're the first, I definitely wouldn't wait to talk to him! I know it's scary and embarassing, but that's part of a relationship: a person has the oppertunity to talk to you with your guard down...you have to be vulnerable in a relationship, or he will never get to know you.

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^Thanks Gily!
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I'd really love to be able to talk to him, but he won't talk to me right now.

He's telling everyone that we broke up and then I broke him and Carly up, even when Jordan, Carly, and I KNOW that's not true. My guess is that he just wants to come off looking better than me.

Idiot. He'll never look better than ME

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<center>“Envy consists in seeing things never in themselves, but only in their relations. If you desire glory, you may envy Napoleon, but Napoleon envied Caesar, Caesar envied Alexander, and Alexander, I daresay, envied Hercules, who never existed.”
at one point, I was alejandrah.

Of course he won't. You'll always be so much better than him.

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I was cured all right.

That lying, scheming prat! Anybody who does that sort of thing would definitely not be better than you. Keep telling yourself that dear.

Don't get bitter. Let him be. Let this blow over. You're trying to redig this up, darlin', and that's somethin you shouldn't do. I know it hurts at the mo, but you really need to just let all his hurtful comments, and any possible lies roll off like water on a ducks back....

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Secret Evil Twin of Aranel Faelwen
.World Domination since 2008.

Does he keep saying all the people he knows that you and him broke up? If so, that means he want to attract more attention on himself.

I agree with Gwen. You need to tell that guy what do you feel about him in exact words. Waiting for football season seems kinda logical to me. And as long as you seem cool, he will no way looking better than you will, memory.

I do not believe I say this to you, but he does not deserve you if that is what he does. Anyway, this thread started to work as an advice thread, do not you think so?

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Will be going to London on March of the 30th

I have been noticing that......i couldnt just barge into the conversation....

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Annoying-Amount-of-Smileys Nazgul
Co-Force of Evil Posting

It wasn't for advice to begin with? And by all means, barge on in.

Jordan is continuously telling everyone that we broke up before he and Carly went out, when we never did. He's just trying to come off looking better, if not cooler.

In all truth, I'm not that upset about it anymore. He put most of his attention on Carly, thus he didn't on me. I found out recently, like friday, that he and Carly kissed.

And then she found out that he supposedly does dip. Thank God he kissed her and not meh. The idiot.

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<center>“Envy consists in seeing things never in themselves, but only in their relations. If you desire glory, you may envy Napoleon, but Napoleon envied Caesar, Caesar envied Alexander, and Alexander, I daresay, envied Hercules, who never existed.”
at one point, I was alejandrah.

Now, now, let's not get hostile in here. It's true, we can use this thread for advice on such girl-boy issues if need be. Memory just needed to vent and get some support and I think that's perfectly all right.

I guess maybe we should change the subject to avoid further problems..

May i suggest that if we have a certain topic we are pretaining to that we quote it at the top of our posts. Not to be rude but i had no idea what the last conversation was about. It would have been nice to know so that i could have put out a responce. But lets change the topic....or a new question....

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Annoying-Amount-of-Smileys Nazgul
Co-Force of Evil Posting

That's a good idea Tel, but really whats the point? We could always just read a couple of the earlier posts to get an idea. But, I suggest we move on. No harm done.

New topic: On the topic of friends... do guys find it hard to make friends with the opposite gender? Without seeming too forward I mean.

As a girl, I find it very easy to make friends with guys. You just have to remember not to go too far with the attentions or else they may take it the wrong way. As though you're flirting with him or something.

Now a days I flirt with everyone. shamelessly, mind. I'm pretty much friends with everyone, so it's pretty much common knowledge that when I flirt with say, Payne, Clay, or Davidson that it's just a huge joke.

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<center>“Envy consists in seeing things never in themselves, but only in their relations. If you desire glory, you may envy Napoleon, but Napoleon envied Caesar, Caesar envied Alexander, and Alexander, I daresay, envied Hercules, who never existed.”
at one point, I was alejandrah.

I find myself very friendly against the opposite gender. I like talking with them like on everything. And I do not need to be afraid of that things going to be ugly because I and the friendgirls usually act like we have boundaries while communicating.

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Will be going to London on March of the 30th

Well, its really funny how i work. I actually find it easier to befriend with Girls. Im annoyed by guys most of the time, due to their immaturity. Although, i find it easier to talk with guys.

Problem is, when i want to ask a girl out, i cant, but i can befriend them. Funny how that works!

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Annoying-Amount-of-Smileys Nazgul
Co-Force of Evil Posting

Thanks Larael! I was wonderin' that myself...

As a girl, I have problems making friends with guys due to the fact that I don't want them to think I like them or anything. I do have some guy friends, but not many, and we don't even talk that much. 'Tis usualy just me an' the girls....

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Secret Evil Twin of Aranel Faelwen
.World Domination since 2008.